In this guide i will be telling you of a few ways to encourage some one to post your item to you after they have taken your money and don't intend on posting anything. all from personal experience. seriously this stuff works

these shouldn't be used if they are just a little late, for all you know they might be on holiday or something but if after a while nothing happens then go for it

only do if they are really being a pain

contact the eBay member and mention you have there address and your able to come and collect it (only use this if they have been rude) this puts the fear of god up them and they normally they comply quite quickly.

look on there seller details or pay pal payment details some times they have there telephone number on there this normally worries people when you phone them (confirm there addy that really worries them)

if the item is particularly valuable open a file against someone in a small claims court. this costs about £15 but should they not do anything they will be taken to court and would have to pay for all legal fees. this defiantly puts the fear of god up people. although normally just mentioning opening one does the trick

what not to do...

threaten to leave negative feedback because they'll only leave it for you!
under no means should you be rude or insult the person as this will look bad should you have to file a pay pal claim

all of these suggestions are entirely legal as they have provided you with all the data e.g. phone numbers, addresses. you are just using what they have given you.

if you have any suggestions contact me at luket662@yahoo.co.uk and ill pop it on the list if i think its a good idea if i don't ill try and suggest an alternate method for you